a house of cards in a hurricane

I've decided that my relationship with ____ is like Connor's and Scarlett Johansen's chacracetr in HIs Just Not That Into You. Except for the sex, and the I love you so much lets move in together love. I just want things the way they were before, we hanging out after church.
I guess, things change. Just not as much as I thought it would.
I still miss her :( she didn't come on Sunday.Why?